The numbers game

Dear Romantic Asexuals (and other, especially avoidant, asexuals who want to have intimate or committed relationships) You’re told that nonsexual romantic relationships are a numbers game of two compatible asexuals meeting up. You’re told that asexuals and allosexual people can work out relationship compromises, and then, if you ask what that looks like, you’re told it’s [...]

Mind the Gap

An idea that manifests itself in my head as a graph, and I’ve been trying to think of the words for it in my head for so long that I’ve now given up. It’s graph time.   Pretend this first graph is a bell curve. It’s the closest I could manage in 30 seconds of [...]